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[comp145]

What do you think of the terms top, bottom, or versatile in the context of a gay relationship? Even if you don't like those terms do you think that they define one's role in a gay relationship even outside of the bedroom? I guess what I am trying to say here is that, do you think that somone who is dominant in the bedroom is going to be the dominant person in the relationship and in life in general?

[ElectricKoolaid]

What are your opinions on GLAAD? Do you think they do a good job of encouraging positive LGBT portrayals and discouraging negative ones?

[Nicetxguy]

I've always had a healthy dose of skepticism when it comes to gay monogamous relationships due to the fact that all gay relationships inevitable come down to two things:

1. One partner ends up cheating
2. The relationship turns into an "Open" relationship with differing Rules and varied times in which it happens.

I guess my question is, what are your feelings/worries about things like this happening to your relationship?

It is a real concern for many of us and to some it is just an "Enlightened" take on the evolution of relationships/marriages as they have changed over time, some sort of anti-hetero excuse. I myself am a serious no nonsense monogamous gay male, always have been always will be but the future prospects look bleak even from those who have claimed to be as I am. I've met couples that have been together 40 years and didn't start an "Open" policy until about 20 years into their marriage, that's why I say inevitable with time.

*Side Note* I have lived/visted in many many different cities/towns around the world and have met a wide variety of Gay Couples, some in very small rural towns, others in big cities (Think: Houghton, MI - NYC) and have yet to meet a couple that hasn't done one of the following above or has a "play together" policy (though the frequency is either very rare or all the time)

Sorry for the wordy question, just thought it deserved a little explanation because I didn't want you to view it as a lurid or inappropriate question into your private lives.

[Etheric]

If each of you had one, and only one, short statement to make to your viewers (or potential viewers), what would it be?

[Englishteacher81]

When are you guys going to parody opening using the Brady Bunch? You should include Connie and her daughter in it!

[ElectricKoolaid]

Oh my God, seconding Englishteacher81's idea. That would be hilarious.

[Etheric]

Haha, I third the idea! You can put the pets in the squares too!

[Englishteacher81]

And they should use wigs! Just to stay true to form since the Brady women were blondes. It would be funny to see little blonde wigs on the cats.

[Nomenclature]

Do either of you ever go to gay bars? Why or why not?